Thursday, October 23, 2008

how far would you go about telling lies!

Lies never build but destroy.

We all know that when it comes to impressing someone you are in a relationship with. When people are dating they want to impress the other party to the fullest. Lies comes in so hardy because the truth will push away the potential partner. Maybe you always had a crush on this guy and you just cannot stand the thought of loosing hi/her. When a guy starts bragging about his pay packet, it’s not true otherwise he would not have to brag about it. Once someone starts bragging about something, it looses its value. Lying about being related or being friends with a celebrity in order to impress a person it’s pathetic, be who you are and that person will respect you for you. Among a lot of articles that have been written about the disadvantages of lying is one by Cary Tennis. Who would want to date someone that makes up silly lies, it’s just unattractive. So I suggest you try to be the best person you can be and let the chips fall where they may.
I honour and respect those that stay who they and not try to pretend to be something or someone they are not to impress their partners. An honest person does not pretend to be a millionaire an Oscar-nominated screenwriter to score points with someone because when you lie to your partner about who you are you are not only basing your relationship which would probably wont last on a lie, but you are also denying that person the chance of getting to know you. Besides how long are you going to keep it up? Girls tend to go extra miles to impress a guy, I mean there is nothing as irritating than seeing a girl wearing hills she can hardly walk in instead of looking sexy she looks like a drunken idiot stumbling all over the place. If you never wore hills or can’t walk in them, then tell him if you think it’s important that he knows. However, lies can be told even by people who are already in a relationship and the funny thing is that the liar is always the one that get hurt the most. I believe most of us watch soap operas if not dramas or movies where they try to send the same message that lies never gets a person anywhere. A good example; just look at Grace from Generations, she lost Ajax the man of her dreams because of a stupid kiss that did not even mean anything.
People who lie are often those who lack self confident. My advice is STOP TRYING SO HARD. It has to start with you respecting and seeing yourself as an important person that people, then you can expect other people to respect you and acknowledge back. Because really there is nothing that mostly turns a person off than a confused soul. Wouldn’t it make you feel good about yourself when someone likes the real you not the person your trying to be? Its better to know that someone likes you for who you are that way you do not have to feel like you are in a competition, like you need to be productive everyday. “"Truth may be stretched, but cannot be broken, and always gets above falsehood, as does oil above water."

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